5 different After School Clubs – 150 different kids

To understand our daily work, let’s first explain the purpose of our volunteer service. In our project we’re involved in five different After School Clubs and schools in the surrounding villages with over 150 children. These kids come from various backgrounds with different strengths, weaknesses, ages, English skills and behaviors. Our main task is to plan, organize and facilitate diverse After School Club activities for these partially disadvantaged children. We aim to take care and teach the children with a focus on non-formal activities, imparting life skills, offering emotional support, teaching teamwork and cooperation and introducing topics like democracy and human rights in a child-friendly manner.

The five schools differ much from each other and even in the schools are significant differences between the groups. Therefore, our planning is individualized each day. We always need to consider the group size of the children, age differences, knowledge of English within the group, the duration of each class and the possibility of using a schoolyard.

During our morning preparation time we plan activities from various categories and topics. These categories include physical, mental, democracy-related, English and creative games/activities. Creative activities usually involve various crafting projects, which are in the cold winter often quite popular. It’s important to always prepare a sample to amke it easier for the kids to understand. We try to explain all activities as simply and visually as possible, using basic English words and gestures, sometimes you need to get creative. The activities vary between competitive games to stimulate ambition and the ability to perform under pressure, and team activities where they have to communicate and solve tasks together. We particularly enjoy planning activities around different themes such as seasons, holidays or personal interests what makes planning easier and the activities more relatable for the children. When we have a particularly good crafting idea or movement game, we usually use it for a whole week at each school.

On Tuesdays we have three different classes in one school. The first class is large with our youngest children, mostly girls, and almost none English skills. But they are very sweet and enjoy playing and most of all they love crafting activities. We avoid activities that need English explanations or English skills which also rules out most topics related to democracy. In this class our goal is to teach the children to concentrate and express their creativity, such as cutting things out and blowing up balloons. These are everyday skills that every child should learn. If we can teach them some basic English along the way, that’s a bonus. The second class is very similar. They are a bit older but their English is not much better with few exceptions. They are our largest group and by far the loudest. In such a large group it’s much more challenging to maintain attention when the children don’t understand your language and explanations. That´s why we try to be as simple and structured as possible. Most of the time we follow the same plan as for the previous class and only adjust a few activities according to age. In this class we act more as teachers and leaders than friends to get their respects and attention. Our last group is Gesine’s favorite group. These children are our oldest and their English is the best. The group is smaller and even if some of them don’t understand us, others can translate. Quickly we could notice how good and understandable communication strengthens the relationship between us and each of them, as it’s possible to have individual conversations with every child. We take advantage of this and always plan activities that integrate conversations and focus a lot on our democracy theme, thinking games and being a role model for them through the storys we tell and the opinions we represent. Our goal in this class is to improve their English and intensify our friendly relationship with them.

On Wednesdays we visit two schools. First we go to a very typical After School Club. The kids are from poor backgrounds and have differnt ages and minimum English skills. Our job is to help them with homework if needed and otherwise just play. Usually we bring toys like balls, frisbees, hula hoops or pool noodles. We play outside, sometimes in large groups and sometimes we take just two or three of them to give them seperate attention. Always we split up; Gesine goes out with the children after homework and plays soccer for at least one hour. Candice normally stays inside because the very young girls shouldn’t go outside in winter. Also we bring board games like “Crocodile” or Twister. As a crafting activity we print out coloring pages or similar games on paper. Our goal here is to give the children a good time, be a friend and support them in everything we can and also to impart knowledge for school, creativity and social interaction.

Then we continue to our second school of the day. There we have two classes at the same time in two different classrooms. The four of us always split up here and each pair alternates between the older or younger class each week. All the children here are very respectful, kind and motivated to work with us which makes our work much easier and more fun. When the weather is good we like to start with a game outside with everyone or go out for an activity in between. The class with the younger children is relatively large and their English skills are rather limited. But they are motivated in everything and we try to make the time as varied as possible. The class with the older children is smaller and some people´s English is really good so they can translate for the others. That’s why we plan many democracy activities and games related to learning English. Our goal is to show them the fun and confidence in speaking English through our activities.

On Thursdays we go to a school that sometimes pushes us to our limits. In this group are mostly girls of various ages with very limited English skills. One of the three boys is hyperactive and absolutely unable to concentrate and another is slow in everything. You constantly have to keep an eye on these two. Our biggest challenge in this group are the group dynamics. Even if we don’t understand their language, we notice from their tone, posture and general interaction how mean they are to each other. Small groups with leaders have formed in the large group which leads to exclusion in the class. Sometimes they also behave disrespectfully towards us what is mainly because the language barriers. Although there is a beautiful schoolyard that we often try to include for various games, we have to be careful that there are no disputes between the children. We try to plan fewer competitive activities and more games for teamwork. Even if in other schools it works the best to start with an activity where the children can release their energy, in this school the best plan is to make a nice craft with the children together. They love everything related to crafting and they also love singing from the heart so during it they calm down, can concentrate, have fun and also sing at the same time. Our goal with these children is to bring them joy, to do justice to the very different children and to bring peace to this group again and again.

On Fridays we always need the longest preparation time. In this After School Club we are there for three hours. The first hour and a half are with a large group of children of various ages which is then reduced to a small manageable group for the second half. All of them are individual and some need special attention but they all have one thing in common: they are full of energy. Therefore it´s important to structure these three hours precisely and always to have alternatives ready. Usually we start with a movement game outside so that all their energy can be let out. Then we always go inside to implement a crafting idea. In our experience this is the easiest for us because all children no matter which age or English skills can participate in this activity and it’s much easier for us to keep an eye on all the children. We put a lot of effort into finding something that both the youngest girls and the older boys will enjoy and that is possible for each. Sometimes it’s not easy which is why we plan alternatives for the older boys. Depending on the length of the crafting activity, we still have time for a small game together before the school bus arrives and most of the children leave. For the second half we plan many small activities because the concentration often doesn’t last for long. We try to provide a lot of variation with movement games, English tasks and creative games. In the end we never have more than ten children and their ability to focus is now very low. So we give them more freedom, either we play games with music, just dance, do activities like gymnastics, limbo or everyone paints together. We always print out coloring pages or similar games on paper for this purpose. Also in this group a positive group dynamic is a main goal for us. Our intention is to impart social skills and values to the children. For this it’s important that we volunteers participate in all the activities to demonstrate how to play fair and be a good loser.

As you can see every day, every preparation and every school is very different. Even more different are each of our children. They can’t all be compared to each other and precisely because they are so special, we have taken them to our hearts!

Gesine & Candice

Too good at goodbyes

Today we are less than four weeks away from the end of our project, four weeks away from the big departure and the big goodbyes. To imagine myself living without the others is just not possible anymore. It’s going to happen very quickly, and that thought is so sad that we avoid talking about it. But it won’t be new to us. Because if there’s one thing we’ve learned here and practice, it’s saying goodbye.

For 7 months, we’ve had the opportunity to meet a large number of volunteers. It’s common that in the middle of a conversation, we learn that “a new volunteer is arriving next Monday” “Oh cool! How old?” “Girl or boy?” “For how long? Long term or short term?” “What project?” or even just arriving at the office one morning and oh, new faces! “Hey, nice to meet you, welcome, what’s your name?” And it’s as simple as that. Today we’ve seen faces, from high school students to retirees, coming from all corners of the United States, as well as from Australia, staying for a week or for 4 months. It’s crazy, we’re completely used to it now, it’s become normal for us. Making connections and becoming friends has never been so easy, a handshake, some random question like “Was the journey not too long?” and there you have a new friend with whom you’ll end up traveling and experiencing crazy adventures just a few days later. That’s the best part of being in Care2Travel, having the opportunity to meet so many people from all over the world, with so many different cultures, personalities, and future projects. With each conversation with a new person, a new world opens up, each of them is unique and leaves a considerable mark here on us after their visit.

However, the inevitable aspect of this adventure is having to say goodbye. Whether you spend a week or months with someone, it might be really difficult to say goodbye. We create connections, we get attached to someone, we get used to seeing them all the time, in just a few weeks sometimes they’re already part of your daily life, and then suddenly you have to continue without that person. So you learn. At first, it was the hardest, goodbyes were even more emotional. And then you get used to it more or less. For some, we manage to move on quickly, we have a good time here with them, good memories, and then during a last evening we say goodbye, it’s emotional, it’s intense, and then they leave and life continues here. Then for others, it’s more complicated, months later we still think about them, we talk about them almost every day, because on the one hand, they really marked our experience here and our memories, but mainly because we would give anything to have them here again. Ultimately, we think that we’ll see some of them again, or at least we’ll try, for others, we simply keep the good experience we had with them. But ultimately, we couldn’t be more grateful to have met them.

But some goodbyes are so hard that we can never say we are used to that. During the month of February, the first member of the After-School Clubs project left, Hubert. One less in the house, already creating a significant void. Then last week, in one weekend, we had four goodbyes to make, it was the hardest weekend since we’ve been here. Greta, one of our best friends here, left first, it was very difficult but also a beautiful moment full of emotions, everyone was gathered, crying but united and there for each other. It was tough but really intense and we’ll never forget this moment. We really miss her. Then the next day we also had to say goodbye to Marc and Valentina, two IVHQ volunteers very dear to our hearts, and to a friend we have here in the city who was moving away. A difficult weekend, but also one of the most intense, with lots of good-bye parties, a great opportunity to get together, lots of emotions and lots of love. So we started the following week tired, exhausted by all these emotions, but it wasn’t over, there was no rest for the goodbyes. Because in the middle of the week, the mom of the family we live with, who’s also been our mom since we’ve been here, and Minas were leaving. The same morning. A terrible day, we start crying at 7am, time for goodbyes, then we cry for half the day. Very nice.

Greta’s departure

If Candice, who was supposed to leave at the same time as Minas, managed to postpone her departure by a month, there is inevitably a day when it’s going to happen. In 4 weeks, we’ll have to say goodbye to everyone, the volunteers, the Care2Travel staff, and especially the host family with whom we live. But there’s something good about goodbyes: it’s a beautiful, emotional moment when we look back on the good times and say what’s on our hearts. But there’s one thing we haven’t yet learned enough about, and that’s saying goodbye to each other. The relationship we both have is very strong, and it’s hard to imagine that in 4 weeks’ time we’ll have to relearn how to live our daily lives, the big moments and the little ones, without each other.

Gesine & Candice

Romania viewed through my telescope

Hello, Rebecca here! 

Now I feel like I’ve been in Romania for long enough to have a clear opinion of what kind of country it is and what it means to live here, so let’s talk about it for a bit. 

At first, when I arrived here, I thought Romania was not that different of a country from the one I left, but with time I started understanding it more deeply and having a more complex image of it. So, here we go. 

First of all, a big difference between Romania and Italy is the countryside. In Italy we have countryside, of course, but it’s not as wide and fascinating. If you take a car and start driving through Transylvania, this is what you’ll see: one single road in the middle of non-ending fields, mountains in the distance. Every once in a while you’ll see a horse-drawn wagon on the street, people sitting in it and carrying wood or something else. Then you pass through a village: houses on the side of the road, a church, few small shops. My question will always be: what came first, the road or the village? The egg or the chicken? 

Anyway, you’re driving through this valleys, no factories, no towns, no buildings. It’s calm. 

This village thing is really fascinated for me, it is such a small reality. People leave out of agriculture, farming; everyone knows everyone. People gossip about each other, but there’s a strong sense of community. Even though young people usually move out, to have more opportunities, people who grew up in a village sometimes stay there their whole life; they have space, they’re connected to nature. 

It’s the big difference between life in the city and life in the small village that makes you wonder how can it all be the same country. 

The dynamics of the cities are pretty much the same of the ones of the cities I’ve seen before. They are different one from the other, some of them are really beautiful, some of them are not that interesting and it feels like there’s not really anything to do or see. I have my favourite ones, of course, and if we want to drop names, here we go: Brașov, Sibiu and Oradea. There are other really cool and beautiful cities, but they are not my kind of cities, especially those that seam to be made for the cars and don’t really feel like a livable place. One of this places, for example, is Bucharest. 

Trains and accommodations in Romania are way cheaper than in Italy, so it’s actually possible to visit other cities without having to sell your kidney. Many times the trains are really old and late, but it’s part of the adventure. Anyway, thanks to this, I and the other volunteers had the opportunity to visit much throughout these months. 

One thing that I love is going back to a city I’ve already visited, to see it in a different light. If you see something under different circumstances, times and occasions, it becomes more real and true to you. It’s not two-dimensional anymore, and it takes on a different shape. 

It’s when I go back to a place here in Romania that I feel that I’m not just passing from here, but I am actually living here. 

Me, personally, I live in Harghita county, which is a region in the north-centre of Romania, known for its cold and for having the biggest Hungarian community in the country. For this reason, not only I got to know Romanians, but, also and mostly, Hungarians. I learnt more Hungarian than Romanian and got to know the Székelyek (Hungarians living in Romania), their culture and traditions very closely. They are a bit of strange people to me, because they can be cold and close towards others (a local friend of mine told me once that the cold weather makes people more cold), but once they get to know you they are warm and nice. Living in a small city, they are not used to foreigners, and when they meet someone from abroad, either they close theirselves to you, or they show interest and ask you how the hell you ended up there. You never know what kind of reaction you’re going to get, but in a few months you’ll start appreciating the surprised and curious people, and not care about the others.

You’ll be glad to hear that I don’t shit my pants anymore when ordering in a restaurant or trying to understand what the rapping cashier is trying to tell me. People (as all people around the world) can be rude to you as a foreigner, but for this reason is so sweet to encounter those who are kind and welcoming.

Romania is a cool and interesting country, this I have learnt. It has crazy beautiful landscapes, I’m going to miss so much the train rides here, the clean sky at night and the city where I live, Miercurea Ciuc (Csíkszereda in Hungarian). 

I’m glad the flights are cheap, because, when I’ll be home, I know I’ll want to come back every once in a while. Damn, I think I’ll miss it. 

-Rebecca

Reflecting on My Volunteering Journey: A Stoic Farewell to Romania

As I sit down to compose my final blog post, I am compelled to reflect on the stoic journey that has been my volunteering experience in Romania. Tomorrow marks the conclusion of a chapter defined by trials and triumphs, where moments of adversity have served as opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

My time in Romania has been a testament to the stoic principles of resilience, perseverance, and equanimity in the face of adversity. From the outset, I was met with the challenges inherent in navigating unfamiliar territory, from cultural nuances to language barriers. Yet, rather than succumb to despair, I embraced these challenges as opportunities for personal and intellectual growth.

Volunteering in the “Teaching and Care in After School Clubs 2.0” project presented its own set of challenges, testing my patience and fortitude on a daily basis. Balancing the diverse needs of the children, navigating interpersonal dynamics, and managing logistical hurdles required a stoic resolve and unwavering commitment to the task at hand. There were moments of doubt and frustration, where the weight of responsibility threatened to overwhelm me. Yet, through the practice of self-discipline and mindfulness, I found solace in the Stoic teachings that guided me through moments of turmoil.

In the midst of adversity, I discovered a profound sense of purpose and fulfillment in serving others. The resilience and joy exhibited by the children in the After-School Clubs served as a poignant reminder of the Stoic virtues of courage and resilience in the face of adversity. Their laughter, curiosity, and unwavering spirit inspired me to persevere in my efforts, despite the challenges that lay ahead.

Moreover, the camaraderie and support of fellow volunteers and project coordinators provided a source of strength and encouragement throughout the journey. Together, we weathered the storms of uncertainty and doubt, offering words of wisdom and encouragement to one another in times of need. Through the practice of mutual aid and solidarity, we transcended individual hardships to achieve collective success.

In addition to the profound reflections on my volunteering journey in Romania, I am excited to share news of my next adventure in service. As I prepare to bid farewell to Romania, I am honored to announce that I will be joining the European Voluntary Humanitarian Aid Corps upon the completion of my current mission.

Joining the European Voluntary Humanitarian Aid Corps represents the next chapter in my journey of service and self-discovery. Building upon the invaluable experiences and lessons learned during my time in Romania, I am eager to continue making a positive impact in the lives of others, both locally and globally.

Through my participation in the European Voluntary Humanitarian Aid Corps, I will have the opportunity to further cultivate the values of compassion, resilience, and solidarity that have guided me thus far. Whether responding to humanitarian crises, supporting community development projects, or providing assistance to vulnerable populations, I am committed to upholding the principles of humanitarianism and service to humanity.

As I embark on this new chapter, I am filled with a sense of purpose and gratitude for the opportunities that lie ahead. Though my time in Romania may be coming to an end, the memories, friendships, and lessons learned will forever shape my journey as a volunteer and a global citizen.

As I prepare to bid farewell to Romania and embark on this new adventure, I do so with a sense of optimism and anticipation for the opportunities and challenges that lie ahead. Though the path may be uncertain, I am confident that with the support of my fellow volunteers and the guiding principles of humanitarianism, I will continue to make a meaningful difference in the world.

I extend my heartfelt thanks to everyone who has supported me along the way, from the children and fellow volunteers in Romania to the project coordinators and local community members who have welcomed me with open arms. Your encouragement, guidance, and camaraderie have been the driving force behind my journey, and I am profoundly grateful for each and every one of you.

As I bid farewell to Romania, I do so with a stoic resolve and a sense of gratitude for the journey that has led me here. Though the road may have been fraught with challenges, the memories, lessons, and friendships forged along the way will endure forever.

Until we meet again, Romania. And to the future that awaits, I eagerly say: ”Vale”.

~Argyrou Minas, MBiotech

Reflecting on Community Impact: A Journey of Transformation

As I find myself nearing the end of my volunteering journey in Romania, I am compelled to reflect on the profound impact our collective efforts have had on the local community. Looking back on the midway point of our journey, it’s remarkable to see how our presence has left a lasting impression on the lives of those we’ve had the privilege to serve.

At the heart of our mission lies the After-School Clubs, where children from diverse backgrounds come together to learn, play, and grow. Through educational activities, mentorship, and emotional support, we’ve created a nurturing environment where children feel valued and empowered to reach their full potential. Witnessing their growth and development over time has been nothing short of inspiring, reaffirming the transformative power of education and compassion.

Beyond the walls of the After-School Clubs, our impact has extended into the broader community, fostering connections and collaboration among local stakeholders. By forging partnerships with schools, community organizations, etc., we’ve been able to amplify our efforts and address broader societal challenges. Together, we’ve worked towards creating a more inclusive and resilient community where every individual has the opportunity to thrive.

While our journey has been marked by challenges and setbacks, it’s also been defined by moments of triumph and resilience. Each obstacle we’ve overcome has strengthened our resolve and deepened our commitment to making a positive difference in the lives of others. Together, we’ve proven that even in the face of adversity, hope and perseverance can prevail.

As I prepare to bid farewell to Romania, I do so with a profound sense of gratitude for the opportunity to be part of something greater than myself. The memories we’ve shared, the lives we’ve touched, and the bonds we’ve formed will forever hold a special place in my heart. Though our time together may be coming to an end, the impact of our collective efforts will endure, serving as a testament to the transformative power of community and compassion.

~Argyrou Minas, MBiotech

How we plan our activities for the kids

Hello everyone, it’s time to write a new blog post. For this time, I thought about writing about how we plan our activities for the children. Usually we have 1,5 to 2 hours in the early afternoon to plan the activities before going to the children in the late afternoon or evening.

Step 1: Time management. First we think about how much time we have with the children. This period ranges from 20 minutes to two hours. From this time depends how many activities and games need to be planned

Step 2: English level. Now we think about what level of English the children have and decide on a topic. If the children speak very little English, we try to cover a basic topic, for example, colors, numbers, hobbies, etc. If the children speak English a little better, we can think about more complex topics.

Handwritten notes

Step 3: Brainstorming. Now it’s really getting started. We start collecting ideas and make handwritten notes. In this part, our activities often get their interesting names when we translate the games that we know in our native language into English. Most of the time, we start with activities that require more English, and towards the end, when the children’s concentration and motivation decrease, we try to plan more games. 

Step 4: Preparation of the material. After we have agreed on activities, we prepare the material we need. One of our favorite things is used here. The laminator! By laminating our material, we can reuse it with other children, and I have to say, the children seem more motivated when we give them something laminated than a simple sheet of paper, plus it sometimes gets wrinkled and destroyed and can’t be reused.

Step 5: Carrying out the activities. When you do a new activity for the first time, you usually notice very quickly whether the children like and understand the activity or not. Of course, we also try to find activities that the children like, but sometimes there are cases where the activity does not go as planned. Then it’s important to be spontaneous and either change the activity so it works, or go back to another activity where you know it works.

Doing upcycling activities
Playing games

Step 6: Adjusting the activity. After doing the activity for the first time, we usually use the activity with other children. Sometimes it is necessary to adjust the activity a bit, as not all children have the same interests or speak English equally well. But this part is usually very fast, and after that, we can use the activity several times.

Step 7: Lesson plan. At the end of the week, we always create a lesson plan where we write down everything we have done during the week. There we list all the activities we have done and the material we needed; if there is a link to the activity, we add it too. This plan is very helpful if you want to remember the activities from the past and want to know what you have done so far.

Step 8: Organizing the material. When we have done the activity with all the children we wanted to do it with, we keep our material in a folder to have it in case we want to use it again in the future.

Now that I have explained how we plan our activities, a few more tips. One thing that helped us was that we did small surveys with the children. We gave each child a note with different topics, and they were allowed to underline the topics they were interested in. This made it easier for us to plan activities over the next few weeks, because we knew what topics the children were interested in and what they wanted to learn. Another tip is to exchange ideas with other volunteers. A meeting we had with the after-school volunteers was very helpful. We explained to each other what activities we did with the children and which ones worked well. Of course, we work with different groups of children, but it was still a very helpful meeting. It is also not bad to repeat the topics from time to time, because this is important so that the children can memorize the new vocabulary.

As some of you may know, I have a focus on the environment in my project, and therefore we also plan green activities. All of the things I described before apply to these activities, but especially with the younger children, we often do upcycling activities, and here are a few things to keep in mind. With the upcycling activities we try to make new things out of old things (toilet paper rolls, egg cartons, etc.). When you are planning these things, it is important to try them first to make sure that the activity is not too difficult, that you have enough material for all kids, and that the time is sufficient. 

In summary, however, I can say that with time, it becomes easier and easier to plan the activities for the children. You work better together as a team, and you get to know the children better and you are able to guess which things they might like and which they might not like better. And even if an activity doesn’t go the way you imagined it, you can learn from it, adjust the activity, and make it better next time.

– Paula

A MONTH FULL OF CHANGES AND FAREWELLS

With the arrival of spring, we have welcomed many new volunteers and said goodbye to others. I’ve never been a big fan of farewells, but with this experience I’m learning a lot to live in the moment and take farewells as something beautiful, because each person who has gone through this volunteering has left a part of themselves with us, and that’s something that I think is wonderful.

The arrival of new volunteers has given way to the emergence of new ideas and projects, Alexis (“silly sausage”) came for only two weeks but planted seeds (literally and metaphorically) everywhere she could. Among the seeds that are beginning to blossom is a new activity for the community about hosting campfire talks about organic gardening and other topics, as well as creating an intercultural environment where we can share and get closer to the community.

In addition, Marc has come back for three weeks, and I have been able to help him with his robotics club, which although it is not my favorite subject of knowledge, I am always willing to learn new things and participate in different activities.

On the other hand, the English club is becoming popular and the last few times we have had more than twenty people, which is impressive. It is giving us the opportunity to meet new people and make the English club more enjoyable and bearable.

This month I went to some of the foster care homes and schools that I had not been to before and I fell in love with the sweetness of some of the children. I’ve learned that many times the people who have the least are the ones who value things the most and thinking that I’m doing something positive for them makes me feel really good about myself. I have also faced the intercultural night, after having dedicated many hours of work to it, I can finally say that it is finished and that everything has gone very well. I cooked potato omelet and “tapas” with prosciutto, tomato and olive oil for the attendees to try some of my local food. And you can see that they liked it because there was absolutely nothing left.

But without a doubt my favorite activity is the art and mental health workshop that although it is a very powerful source of stress, because sometimes I am very critical of myself, it is definitely an activity that feels great every time I do it and I really feel that I am doing something positive and creating an impact in the community with it.

We’ll see what the next few months bring!

-Africa

Happy times, tears, letting go

Hello. Another month has passed and I have to write a blog post again. This time I’ve decided to write to you about what I’ve been up to in the last month and what great people I’ve met

We had the opportunity to go to the reading marathon at the library earlier this month. Everyone chose a small section they would like to read and volunteers translated most of what they wanted to read into their own language. I had an easy job in this aspect, as I didn’t have to translate my text into another language. We spent a little more time in the library than we should have, but it was not really that frustrating, it reminded me of my school days when we used to go to these events with the school every year.

In the meantime, we managed to go to Candice’s intercultural evening, where we learned a lot about France and the region where she lives. She was very skillful and her food was delicious, which she prepared for all the participants

However, for the last month, we have been mostly with the children. It’s a good feeling to meet different children every day and bring them joy. Yes, sometimes it is not easy to work with them and to give them a lot, but really, who is easy to give something important to? We are not easy cases either, adults… Sometimes we can behave like children, which is sometimes good and necessary, but sometimes not the best. The best thing for me in this story is that we are not only giving, not only giving happiness but also receiving. We get gratitude and love from them that you can never imagine. No one cares for us like they do. They always know when something is wrong, they always know when something is just perfect. I’m just proud of them for who they are and sometimes I wish I could learn a lot from them. I think I have a few more months to learn, and I’m definitely not going to forget about them when we’re done with our project.

And of course, let’s not forget our dear friends who visited us. First I will tell you about a visit. Two of our fellow ESC volunteers came to visit us. So we were able to spend a few days together, and on two evenings we made a campfire together and had a good chat. The second thing I want to tell you about is our new fellow volunteers. In the meantime, we got a couple of new volunteers who we had quite a good chat with (I say had because some of them went home after 2 weeks), and we still talk to this day. Alexis was everyone’s “grandmother” and a very loving woman. We got so much from her in the few days she was with us. It was with great sadness that we had to say goodbye to her, but I hope we will have the opportunity to meet again, and if not, we will definitely keep in touch in some form. Gus, who spends more time with us than Alexis, is a great guy. It’s true that sometimes he talks too fast and you can’t understand what he’s saying, but he’s got a great spirit too and we have a good time, spending time together. And I left another important meeting for the end. This month Rebecca’s sending organization visited us and we spent a few days with them. Like all the other meetings, this was very much appreciated, as I don’t speak much Italian yet, but I was able to use my knowledge a little and I was lucky enough to spend a full day with them in Brasov and at the Peleș Castle. I was very surprised when I was invited because it was Rebecca who they visited. And I thank them for all the words of appreciation they gave me, and also for the opportunity to help me go to Italy and spend 2 months there, volunteering.

And last but not least, I would like to thank Greta for the few months we have spent together, as she is leaving us and beginning her departure. Thank you Greta for all the unforgettable hockey games, conversations, and every minute we spent together. I’m sure I won’t forget you either.

-Nóra-

Little Italy (except that I’m the only Italian)

Hello dears, Rebecca here, welcome to this brand new blog post! Today our topic is: sharing my being Italian with the local community.

One thing you have to know about living abroad is that, no matter how ugly the place you’re coming from, suddenly you start seeing it with different eyes. But my home is not ugly at all, it’s really pretty and I’ve always loved it, so now I basically never shut up about it (you know, sharing is caring). I was already born a passionate person, but, God, nothing stops me when I find a good topic; so, when I realised that people here in Romania love Italy, I was over the moon. I had something to talk about that was actually interesting, good for me! So I opened an Italian Club, which I organise and host once every two weeks. As you hopefully remember, I work with kids in foster care homes, so, during my day, I don’t usually interact with people older than 20 years old, and I was kind of missing my older people. Because of this, the Italian club is perfect. I can interact with people that have passed their teenage years a while ago, and that are willing to listen to me chatter for one hour straight. You are probably asking yourself, at this point, if people are really willing to do that, and what the hell do you do at an Italian club. I’m more than happy to answer your unexpressed question. I don’t know about other Italian clubs, but at my Italian club we have fun. We meet for one hour and a half, in the evening, we eat (I usually try to bake, or other people bring food), we learn Italian and talk in Italian (because we’re pros) and we play. Not all of the people who attend the club know Italian, but I organise the activities and try to speak mostly in Italian, and then we translate together if someone doesn’t understand. It came out that it’s not that hard language, so at least on understanding we’re pretty good. Every time we decide a topic (like art, music, famous people, places to visit etc) and our conversation and activities have that theme. I usually prepare quizzes, drawing/ cards/ mimic games, but my favourite part is talking (obviously). I prepare some questions and give one each, then starting from there, we chat for a while; some people can even answer and talk in Italian and that warms my heart so much. I feel so flattered by the fact that someone wants to communicate with me in my language. 

I recently also had the opportunity to share my origins to a bigger group. Every volunteer here has, at one point, to present their country to the locals and whoever wants to join. We hold a one hour presentation in the library where we talk about different aspects of our country/region/city, have a quiz, and eat a typical food we cooked. My Intercultural night was about Italy and I cooked pizza (how original lmao). I talked about the differences between the North and the South (+ I inserted a little critic about the division of the country), the food, the popular culture (sagra, vendemmia, carnevale, palio etc), Tuscany and Florence. 

It was so fun to talk to around 40 people, helped by Dóra, the local volunteer who translated everything I said in Hungarian. I kinda of felt bad for her because I was more casually talking, without strictly sticking to the text I wrote, and she had to improvise to follow me sometimes, but she did a great job. I really had fun and I think it came out something enjoyable and interesting, so I’m glad. I even got to talk to some locals who wanted to chat afterwards and it was really really nice. 

I remember, when I was in Italy, it was like a fresh wind to meet someone from another country, it made me feel like I was traveling myself. Now I am the one who possibly brings a breeze somewhere. Cool. 

-Rebecca

The Joyful Journey: Working with Children in After-School Programmes

Embarking on the journey of working with children in after-school programmes is a delightful and impactful experience. As a volunteer, the opportunity to engage with young minds during this crucial period of growth and learning brings a unique set of rewards and challenges. In this exploration, we delve into the enriching aspects of working with children in after-school settings, celebrating the joyous moments that make this journey so special.

One of the key roles in working with children is fostering a supportive environment where they feel safe, valued, and encouraged to express themselves. After-school programmes become spaces where children can share their thoughts, ask questions, and explore their interests in a nurturing atmosphere. As a volunteer, contributing to the creation of this supportive environment is foundational to the positive impact you can make.

Children are natural explorers, and after-school programmes offer a canvas for unleashing their creativity and curiosity. Whether through arts and crafts, science experiments, or imaginative play, volunteers have the privilege of being catalysts for discovery. The joy that comes from witnessing a child’s eyes light up with curiosity is immeasurable and adds a vibrant dimension to the volunteering experience.

Beyond the realms of creativity, after-school programmes are also spaces for guiding academic growth. Volunteers play a crucial role in assisting with homework, providing additional support in challenging subjects, and instilling a love for learning. The journey involves not just imparting knowledge but also cultivating a positive attitude toward education, empowering children to approach learning with enthusiasm.

The bonds formed while working with children in after-school programmes are often enduring and impactful. Volunteers become mentors, friends, and role models, leaving a lasting impression on the young minds they engage with. These connections extend beyond the classroom, creating a sense of community and support that contributes to the holistic development of the children.

Working with children also presents its share of challenges, from managing different personalities to addressing conflicts. Patience becomes a valuable ally in navigating these challenges. As a volunteer, the journey involves not only facilitating positive experiences but also learning to adapt, understand diverse needs, and respond with patience and empathy.

The journey of working with children is marked by numerous small victories and milestones. Witnessing a child overcome a learning hurdle, gain confidence, or express themselves in new ways is cause for celebration. Volunteers find fulfillment in these moments of progress, realizing the impact they have on shaping the developmental trajectory of the children they work with.

After-school programmes offer a social space where children learn to interact, collaborate, and form friendships. Volunteers contribute to this aspect of the journey by promoting social skills and inclusivity. Whether through group activities, team projects, or inclusive games, the after-school environment becomes a microcosm of a supportive community where every child feels valued.

At the heart of the journey of working with children is the celebration of the joy in learning. Volunteers have the privilege of infusing excitement into the educational process, making lessons engaging and interactive. This joy becomes contagious, creating an atmosphere where both volunteers and children look forward to the after-school sessions as moments of shared exploration and discovery.

In the world of after-school programmes, working with children is not just a task; it’s a joyful journey of shared experiences, growth, and mutual inspiration. Volunteers become architects of a positive environment where children thrive academically, socially, and emotionally. The bonds formed, the challenges navigated, and the celebrations of progress all contribute to a tapestry of joyful moments that make working with children in after-school programmes a truly fulfilling and enriching endeavor.

~Argyrou Minas, MBiotech

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